Do you want to know how to seduce a woman with words? Do you think that you have to be a silver tongued wordsmith to get the job done? Maybe, maybe not. I bet you already realize that words can have a powerful effect on a person. Being able to string the right words together at the right time is a skill that comes in very handy when you want to be able to win over a woman very quickly. You can have build an almost instant sense of rapport and attraction with a woman if you know just the right thing to say to her.
Of course, putting together the WRONG string of words can have quite a negative effect on the way that a woman sees you and the way that she feels when she is around you. You can make a woman go from «hot to not» in the matter of moments just by saying the wrong things at the wrong time. Truthfully, how well you can speak to a woman can literally make or break your chances of being able to hook up with her.
You definitely want to be the kind of guy that has a way with words with women. You don’t want to be awkward about trying to make conversation and you certainly don’t want to foolishly say something that is going to be an instant turn off to her.
So, how do you become the kind of guy who knows how to seduce a woman with words?
Well, let’s talk about something that you DON’T want to do FIRST. And that is, you don’t want to get caught up in this belief that some guys have that they can have supernatural powers over a woman. You don’t want to become one of those guys that goes out to clubs and tries to «hypnotize» women. Why? Well, unless you have built up mentalism abilities that would rival the best hypnotists in the word, most of the time you are going to fail and embarrass yourself if you try to hypnotize women through conversation. Besides, take a look at what guys who are «naturals» do when they are talking to a woman.
I’ll give you a hint – they aren’t try to lull a woman into a hypnotic state.
Guys who are naturally good at making conversation with a woman know that timing is crucial. Say one thing to a woman when you first meet her and she will be offended. Say the same thing to her after you have been talking to her for ten minutes and she will be turned on. So, this is one of the things that you need to learn. You need to know how to judge the timing of the situation to know what to say to her. It might seem like it would be hard to do that, but it’s not. A little bit of guidance and experience and soon… you will be able to have an easy time seducing a woman into bed, because it will always seem like you know just the right thing to say.
Wouldn’t you want to have that ability?
I am going to take a guess and assume that you would LOVE to be able to approach a woman, talk to her for a little bit, and then sweep her off of her feet and make her feel as if she just met the man of her dreams. I mean, how cool would it be to know that you really did have the power to approach a woman and seduce her into bed with you, just because you knew how to stimulate her through conversation?
Have you ever noticed that some people can say just about anything and people will laugh and then there are other people who can tell the same exact joke and no one laughs even a little bit? You want to know why that is?
The main reason why that happens is DELIVERY.
The way that you deliver a joke, a line, or whatever else you say to someone has a LOT to do with the way that they react to it.
This explains why some guys can pull off a cheesy pick up line and it works and then other guys can use that same line and they just get laughed at for being cheesy.
If you don’t want to be seen as the cheesy guy, if you want to be able to use just about any line that you can think of and have it work, then you need to learn how to deliver it. Think about this for an example. Stand up comedians all tell a lot of the same basic jokes. They really do. And yet, some of them go on to become stars and headliners and others just end up toiling away in the dingy little clubs and will never get their break. It all comes down to the fact that the ones who end up succeeding, they know how to deliver their jokes so that the audience wants to laugh.
So, how does this help you out when it comes to seducing a woman? Well, it has a lot to do with understanding it’s not so much what you say to a woman as much as how you say it to her. Just like when a comedian is telling a joke to their audience.
Let’s say that you approach a woman and you use a cheesy pick up line, but you do it in a playful way and it is obvious that you are not seriously thinking that it is the line that is going to win her over. Chances are, she will laugh along with you and just think it was a funny way to break the ice. On the other hand, had you acted as if you were seriously using that line and there was no playfulness or humor in it, she would probably just think that you were a wannabe pick up artist and give you the cold shoulder. Or, if she did laugh, she would be laughing at you and not with you.
When you realize that delivery matters, things can change VERY quickly for you.
Or, you can do what most guys do and never learn how to deliver a line and then wonder why they never seem to work for you at all.
You know what the better choice is. It’s much better to discover how to seduce a woman using conversation than it is to remain in the dark about what it takes.
Remember – the delivery is the make or break difference. It’s the reason why one guy can whisper a line in a woman’s ear and she thinks he is a total jerk, and another whispers the same line… and she is in LOVE!